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<\/figure>\n\n\n\nWhen the montage was finished, my daughter and her friends were right there with me, and even they were surprised \u2013 the same look, the same smile, the same hope and trust in the future. But where does it come from?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
They say that we, as women, are beautiful when we shine from within. We think that this happens automatically, and the handsome prince on a white horse will come and save us\u2026 mostly from ourselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The bad news is \u2013 that he won\u2019t come, but the good news is \u2013 that we can still \u201csave ourselves\u201d, but only through ourselves. No one does this work for us. We can wait for the prince or for the world \u2026 We can become victims of everything, but at the end of the day, we have to make a decision. Do we do it or not? Do we change or stay the same? Do we control our lives or let others control us? Do we live our own lives or follow what our environment imposes on us? Do we remain victims or become heroines of our own story?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The situation is this: until about age 40, the body compensates, trying to hold itself together. Everything that is going on in our soul isn\u2019t really visible from the outside. We are still quite excellent at hiding the real situation \u2013 to be honest, not only from the world, but also from ourselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
After the age of 40, however, this becomes less and less possible, and around age 50, the shit can kick in. (Sorry, I sometimes use harsh words. Especially when it matters.) And if we don\u2019t change even then, by around 56 +\/-, the facade starts crumbling. Around 40, only minor health issues might appear, but after 50, the physical signs begin to multiply. Because the body never lies \u2013 the only question is, do we listen to it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But who is the one who starts knocking on consciousness' door around the age 40, and if nothing happens, starts banging on it wildly after age 50? Well, it\u2019s the little child living inside us. The one who, back in the day, immersed in the game and built her sandcastle and didn\u2019t care if it was kicked over, because the next one was even more beautiful \u2013 with more towers and even a moat added. The one who learned to ride a bike with a broken hand, climbed trees. The one who talked to the flowers, and had butterflies land on her hands, the one who constructed a moon rocket and bravely fought the seven-headed dragon with death-defying courage. So, that\u2019s our creativity. If you know Tarot cards, it\u2019s the \u201cFool,\u201d who is always able to get up and start anew, implements ideas even if those around her call her crazy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In 2018, at age 49, I embarked on a new adventure, and these two photos are a milestone of that. I said \u201cYes\u201d to myself and to the little girl living within. That was the starting point. From there, the hard work began, and it\u2019s still ongoing \u2013I start every day by sitting down, taking deep breaths, focusing on myself, and repeating my mantra. I take care of my body \u2013 paying attention to my diet, eating quality food, and doing yoga several times a week. Regardless of what happened that day, I am grateful for each one \u2013 I reflect on what was good and what I learned, and I do things differently the next day. I\u2019ve learned not to walk \u201cthe same streets,\u201d and like an Aikido practitioner, I dodge unnecessary conflicts. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, after 54 years and now 5 months, we\u2019re doing well. The little girl inside me can count on me, I listen to her, and I love bringing her ideas to life. And what\u2019s the cherry on top? She also loves coffee, and from time to time, we treat ourselves to a cream cake or a pistachio-mixed berry cheesecake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P.S.: Dear Ladies, remember! A woman shines when she radiates from within! Ask the little girl who lives inside you what she needs. What does she want to do? And please listen to her intently!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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